“Remember happiness doesn't depend on who you are or what you have,
it depends solely on what you think.”
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Occasionally I have a hard time loving my pregnant body. It changes every day. I get bigger every day. And I know this is the way it is supposed to be. But, every once in awhile I catch myself in the mirror and think "wow, is that really what I look like?" Of course, I have some of the sweetest friends who say things like "you look great" and "you haven't gained weight anywhere except your bump." And I know they mean well. Their comments do make me smile. It makes it a little easier to brush off the ignorant "are you sure you're not having twins?" comments. (I am convinced there are people who have absolutely no clue how to speak to pregnant women.)
The time of year is coming where people are getting in shape for summer. It makes me want to get out there and run my little heart out.
I am human. I have insecurities just like everyone else.
But, I am lucky. Lucky to be able to carry my child. Lucky to be married to her wonderful daddy. Lucky to be able to provide for her. Lucky to be getting bigger because that means she is getting bigger. Lucky to have the stretch marks that show her growth. Lucky to be a mom.
I am happy.
1 comment:
I totally understand where you're coming from! Everyone has their insecurities, but not all of them have the courage to acknowledge and face them like you do. I think that you're very admirable because of that. Stay optimistic and hopeful, Marli! Have a safe pregnancy. :)
Alejandro Quiroz @ CosMed Clinic
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